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Dr. Mahinder Watsa's sex Q&A
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I am a 24-year-old man. Recently, I had oral sex with an HIV positive man who is under medication. We didn‘’t have intercourse. But we kissed deeply and then he gave me a blowjob (we didn’t use condoms). Could he have passed an HIV infection to me?

Yes, there are chances of the spread of infection. If you want to indulge in oral sex, use a flavoured condom.
Categories: Oral sex, Pain during intercourse, Contraception

I am a 29-year-old married man. My penis is erect when I indulge in foreplay with my wife, but it loses stiffness before I penetrate her. I am worried. Please help.

Just like the limbs, the penis after softening can get erect again after rest. Have two capsules of Tentex Royal (Himalaya) an hour before sex, for 15 days every night.
Categories: Foreplay

I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend three times in a single day, after which she took an I-Pill. Your column has often mentioned taking the pill within 72 hours of having sex, but I’m unsure whether a pill has to be taken after each attempt at intercourse or is one pill sufficient for all three sessions.

One pill has to be taken within seventy two hours of sexual activity (irrespective of how many sessions you have in succession). Please remember that the emergency contraceptive is only 85% effective in preventing pregnancy. Why not use a condom instead, and stop worrying?
Categories: Contraception

I am 22 and my husband is 45. I am his second wife and have been married to him for two years. We used to have occasional sex in the first year, but in the last one year, he has been disinterested. I want to raise a family and have kids of my own but he says he wants me to focus on taking care of the already existing family — he has two boys from his previous marriage — 19 and 14. What should I do?

It’s possible that he married you for that very reason. Either accept it and be content with what you have, or confront him and suggest that he accompanies you to a sexpert.

I have a small penis and I can’t seem to satisfy my girlfriend. My astrologer has advised me to pull it every day for 15 minutes while reciting a shloka. I have been doing this for a month but it hasn’t helped. What should I do?

If he was right, most men would have a penis hitting their knees. God doesn’t help gullible, foolish men. Go visit a sexpert instead who can teach you the art of making love.
Categories: Penis size

What happens if somebody fondles the breasts of an HIV-infected woman and uses the same hand to eat a meal?

Nothing, but please develop the habit of washing hands before eating food or visiting the restroom.
Categories: Sexually transmitted diseases

I am a 25-year-old male. I have sex with my girlfriend twice a week but my stamina is low and I climax within a couple of minutes. Is there a solution to this problem?

You suffer from premature ejaculation. If your physical stamina is low, start exercising daily and have a good nutritious diet. Visit Wikipedia to learn more.
Categories: Premature ejaculation