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Dr. Mahinder Watsa's sex Q&A
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I have been married for two years. But my wife and I are still facing sexual issues due to my premature ejaculation. I try to slow myself down but it’s not helping. We are both frustrated. Please help.

Take a course of NEO (Charak) tablets on an empty stomach for six weeks. Before having sex, apply a little LOX gel 2% over the head of the penis, after slipping back your foreskin. Wait for 10 minutes and wipe off the excess. This helps to dull the extra sensation, which could be responsible for faster ejaculation.
Categories: Premature ejaculation

I am a 24-year-old man and my male friend is 23. Since we share a good friendship, love and affection for each other, we indulged in occasional kissing. Soon, this resulted in sex. Now, we have anal sex regularly and he performs oral sex on me. Is there a chance of HIV infection as we have never indulged in sexual activity with anybody else?

You never know. So, it is always safer to wear a condom during anal or oral sex. Anal sex can leave you with all sorts of infections because the intestine contains a multitude of germs. For example, you can pass on the Hepatitis B infection as well as HIV/AIDS to each other.
Categories: Oral sex, Sexually transmitted diseases, Kissing

I have a habit of gifting a pack of 20 condoms to my friends, who are below the age of 50, on their birthdays, and a similar packet of Tentex Forte to friends over 50. If you think this is not good enough, could you please advise a better idea?

Yes, a sexpert to tell them how to use all of them.

I am 20 years old and don’t feel any sensation in my glans and penis anymore. It happened suddenly when I was indulging in foreplay with my girlfriend. We had our clothes on. Did I damage a nerve, you think?

The friction may have temporarily numbed the area. You’ll be okay in a few days.
Categories: Foreplay

I am 26, and my girlfriend is 23. We had sex without protection. It’s been a month since. When she visited a clinic for a check up, she was told she is pregnant. Unfortunately, she has threatened to commit suicide.

Your callous approach and ignorance has caused what’s a very serious and delicate situation. Make an immediate appointment with a reputed gynaecologist.

A few months ago while I was bathing, I tried to stop the soap from slipping and accidentally slapped my right testicle. It pained for a month. Although it subsided then, in the last two weeks, I’ve been experiencing the pain again. I am embarrassed to visit the family doctor. I have managed with painkillers so far. Can this be serious?

Slap yourself on the cheek to help you ditch the embarrassment, and go visit a doctor.

My partner inserted a clean finger into my vagina, and now I have missed my periods. Is there a chance that I am pregnant?

There seems to be no reason why your periods should have been delayed. Fix an appointment with a reputed gynaecologist immediately so that she can run a test, and suggest future course of action.