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Dr. Mahinder Watsa's sex Q&A
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I am 23 years old. I am getting married next year.My penis is only five cms when erect. Is there any method to make it big? Also, I wear briefs. In that case, should I switch to boxers?

Are you sure of the length? Please check the diameter of the glans (head) of the penis too. I suggest you see a sexpert. As long as the underpants you wear are made of cotton and are the proper size, it does not matter whether you wear briefs or boxers.
Categories: Penis size

I am a 41-year-old strong and healthy man. My wife is 36. However, since the birth of our two children she is reluctant to have sex. Out of frustration I watch a lot of porn films and wonder how to tackle this issue with my wife. I do not want to go to a prostitute. Please suggest a solution.

Have you sat down and consulted her about your technique of love making or what she likes in bed? Probably, she is just scared of another pregnancy or your porn fantasy.

Four months ago, I indulged in protected sex with a prostitute. However, at the time of ejaculation, I removed my penis and ejaculated inside the condom, but outside the vagina. Am I safe from STDs?

You have taken adequate precaution this time. However,bear in mind, the condom can rupture at times. Also, while the condom is intact, any infection at the base of the penis, which is uncovered, can be passed on.
Categories: Sexually transmitted diseases

I am 24 years old. The head of my penis is always sore and hurts when I touch it. I recently learnt that this condition is called Balanitis and occurs mostly in uncircumcised men like myself. Please suggest a cream that can help.

Stop shopping for treatment for this condition. Consult a urologist, instead. Apply Betadine ointment to improve hygiene.
Categories: New category

I am 28 years old. A few days ago, I visited a prostitute for the first time in my life. I briefly rubbed her vagina with my fingers, even though she was reluctant. During the act, some fluid stuck to my fingers and dried off. We then had protected sex. Immediately after the intercourse, I ate a guava on the street without washing my hands. It was only after I took a bite that I realised that I should have washed my hands. Now I am afraid that I might have contracted an infection. What should I do?

Finish the rest of the guava. You couldn’t have been infected by what you did.
Categories: Sexually transmitted diseases, New category

I am 19 years old. I can’t walk or run properly because my testicles start hurting. I do not know how I have developed this problem. For the last four months, I have been masturbating every night. Could this be the cause of the pain Please help.

Cut down on the frequency of masturbation. Consult a doctor and apply an ice pack on your testicles.
Categories: Masturbation, New category

Recently, when I was caressing my girlfriend’s breasts, my penis got erect and I ejaculated within seconds. Due to this, she got very upset. I don’t want to ruin my sex life. Please suggest some medicine and tell me how to control myself.

You will have to learn to exercise better control over your excitement. Be certain that you want to satisfy her first, and only then will you proceed to satisfy yourself.
Categories: Premature ejaculation